Spending a day with Hayden

Well although this blog comes late (what's new?) I wanted to write about the wonderful day that Nathan & I got to spend with Hayden in late October. As Hayden's 9th (choke) birthday approached this year I wondered what I could do for him, what I could buy for him or what he would really remember and appreciate the most. I finally came to the conclusion that what he needed most was some one-on-one time with us. As the oldest Hayden hardly ever gets the attention he needs and I definitely feel that we are the hardest on him. So here is what we did:
1) We had a shirt that said "Hayden: yeah it's my birthday!"
2) We planned a trip to Hayden, Idaho
3) On Thrusday, October 28th we wrapped the shirt up and sent it into his classroom at about 9:30 AM with a note that read:
"You came to school but you're not here to stay, so grab your stuff and get on your way" His class mates were super excited, Hayden was really surprised and very grateful! He got a lot of attention walking down the hall and in the office as we checked him out of school.
4) We wrote on the car with window markers, things like: "Going to Hayden" & "It's Hayden's Birthday" (pretty creative). On the way to Hayden (40 minutes) we played the "if" game, you can print out questions from the internet: "If you were any animal what would you be?" etc.
5) We went on a scavenger hunt for Hayden's name. Once he found his name 9 times we went and purchased him a special present: Haydenopoly (that town has a lot of spirit).
6) Then we went to eat lunch at Mackenzie River Pizza. It was DE-licious!
7) On the way back to Spokane we stopped at Polka-Dot pottery where we painted pottery. We are not very good pottery painters, but when our masterpiece came back a week later baked and glazed it looked better than we thought it would.
8) We arrived back home at about 4PM & just relaxed the rest of the day.
The fun didn't stop there this day was the kick off of a 4 day celebration for Hayden. On Friday we went to a Halloween party and they had bought Hayden a monster cup cake and sang to him. On Saturday the whole ward sang to him before the trunk-or-treat. On Sunday (his real birthday) we celebrated before church with presents and after church with a spooky dinner and cake & ice cream.
Why such a big deal? Well we know how hard it is to be our kid and we just wanted to let Hayden know how grateful we are that he put up with us for yet another year.One of the questions that was asked on the way to Hayden was "What is the best day of your life so far?" to which Hayden replied, "I think today is." My answer was "the day Hayden was born" that was the day I became a mom and I love being a Mom. I get to do so many fun things that I wouldn't so otherwise and I learn so much from my children, especially Hayden. Happy Birthday Hayden! I will always remember this special day we spent with you.